Super Mom Is Faking It
You want to trip her as she glides by you at Back-to-School Night, trying like she simply stepped off the duvet of Family Fun magazine. On one hand, she holds a plate of homemade apple-shaped cookies. within the other, she has four hundred signup sheets for the varsity fundraiser, of which she is (naturally) the chair.
Then there's you, windblown, disheveled, and late (as usual), to not mention empty-handed because Hubby ate all of your brownies last night. once more, you’re faced with the very fact that this mom—a Super Mom, if there ever was one—has raised the mothering bar so impossibly high that your anxiety is skyrocketing alongside it. No surprise you'd wish to visualize her into the bake sale table kind of a hockey player throughout playoffs.
She is most definitely an excellent Mom, and you're . . . what? Desperate to be like her. After all, she helped her son whittle a bar of Ivory soap into a museum-quality sculpture of Lincoln for a Cub Scouts project, while you let your son shave a couple of slices off his bar of soap and call it SpongeBob. Her son’s project seems like it belongs within the Smithsonian with velvet ropes surrounding it.
Your sons seem like AN eight-year-old created it whereas watching the Mets game on TV, which is, of course, exactly what happened. If only, like her, you, too, had a Fine Arts degree. Then you wouldn’t feel so inadequate when it comes time for you . . . er, your son . . . to try his school projects.
Then there's you, windblown, disheveled, and late (as usual), to not mention empty-handed because Hubby ate all of your brownies last night. once more, you’re faced with the very fact that this mom—a Super Mom, if there ever was one—has raised the mothering bar so impossibly high that your anxiety is skyrocketing alongside it. No surprise you'd wish to visualize her into the bake sale table kind of a hockey player throughout playoffs.
She is most definitely an excellent Mom, and you're . . . what? Desperate to be like her. After all, she helped her son whittle a bar of Ivory soap into a museum-quality sculpture of Lincoln for a Cub Scouts project, while you let your son shave a couple of slices off his bar of soap and call it SpongeBob. Her son’s project seems like it belongs within the Smithsonian with velvet ropes surrounding it.
Your sons seem like AN eight-year-old created it whereas watching the Mets game on TV, which is, of course, exactly what happened. If only, like her, you, too, had a Fine Arts degree. Then you wouldn’t feel so inadequate when it comes time for you . . . er, your son . . . to try his school projects.
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You’d swear there’s some kind of bat-signal that summons this woman at just the proper moment, her hair glistening within the school gym lights, a cooler of chilled Gatorade bottles in multiple refreshing flavors at her feet as she trades inside jokes with the coach, then corners the principal for yet one more pow-wow about her child’s potential.
Meanwhile, you scrape the spread off your slipover and root through your purse for a few lipsticks, all the while mumbling under your breath, “Please don’t sit next to me. Please don’t sit next to me.”
You don’t want to listen to about her latest project: her “craft room,” a whole 16'x20' room dedicated to scrapbooking, sewing, needlepoint, and making homemade Halloween costumes that appear as if they belong on the quilt of Martha Stewart children.
You, on the opposite hand, don't have anything quite a “craft drawer,” which is mere if you think about the subsequent ‘craft’: plastic googly eyes, some kid-sized scissors that don't cut much of anything, and a dried-out glue stick covered in gold glitter. The last whimsical craft you tried to make—an egg-carton dragon—wound up within the toy chest, crushed by a Tonka truck and stuck to Barbie’s hair with a half-chewed gumdrop.
You long to be like Super mother, because she seems to be what everyone thinks may be a good mom these days—the quite mom who puts her kids and their travel, piano lessons, Kumon tutoring, soccer games, and elaborate dioramas of the White House made up of sugar cubes before her own needs. the type of mother WHO offers her children the simplest possible, so that at some point she will put a Harvard sticker on the rear window of her SUV and chase away to play bridge with the women at the club, where she’ll brag about her children’s scholarships, and, I dunno, the craft wing she’ll add onto the house.
But does one want to pay $12,000 a year to send your four-year-old to a Chinese immersion school to “give her a leg abreast of her future?” does one want to skip the swim team’s trip to the water park so you'll use the time to enhance your kids’ backstroke splits while everyone else is “wasting the day” within the wave pool?
Do you want to be so busy running the town council, the house and faculty association, and therefore the Mighty Mites hockey fundraiser that the majority nights you are doing not have time to eat dinner together with your
family? Will that cause you to happy? Better yet, can it extremely cause you to a way better mother?
Meanwhile, you scrape the spread off your slipover and root through your purse for a few lipsticks, all the while mumbling under your breath, “Please don’t sit next to me. Please don’t sit next to me.”
You don’t want to listen to about her latest project: her “craft room,” a whole 16'x20' room dedicated to scrapbooking, sewing, needlepoint, and making homemade Halloween costumes that appear as if they belong on the quilt of Martha Stewart children.
You, on the opposite hand, don't have anything quite a “craft drawer,” which is mere if you think about the subsequent ‘craft’: plastic googly eyes, some kid-sized scissors that don't cut much of anything, and a dried-out glue stick covered in gold glitter. The last whimsical craft you tried to make—an egg-carton dragon—wound up within the toy chest, crushed by a Tonka truck and stuck to Barbie’s hair with a half-chewed gumdrop.
You long to be like Super mother, because she seems to be what everyone thinks may be a good mom these days—the quite mom who puts her kids and their travel, piano lessons, Kumon tutoring, soccer games, and elaborate dioramas of the White House made up of sugar cubes before her own needs. the type of mother WHO offers her children the simplest possible, so that at some point she will put a Harvard sticker on the rear window of her SUV and chase away to play bridge with the women at the club, where she’ll brag about her children’s scholarships, and, I dunno, the craft wing she’ll add onto the house.
But does one want to pay $12,000 a year to send your four-year-old to a Chinese immersion school to “give her a leg abreast of her future?” does one want to skip the swim team’s trip to the water park so you'll use the time to enhance your kids’ backstroke splits while everyone else is “wasting the day” within the wave pool?
Do you want to be so busy running the town council, the house and faculty association, and therefore the Mighty Mites hockey fundraiser that the majority nights you are doing not have time to eat dinner together with your
family? Will that cause you to happy? Better yet, can it extremely cause you to a way better mother?
Did You Know?
Super Mom . . .
. . . sleeps sitting up in a chair surrounded by her scrapbooking
supplies and the seating chart for her husband’s surprise fortieth
birthday party (for three hundred of their closest friends)?
. . . Repels mud just like Wonder Woman wards off bullets with her
bracelets?
. . . Keeps math flash cards in her glove compartment, and can
recite all the names of U.S. presidents — in order?
. . . Had lip-liner tattooed on to save her time in the morning for
more important things, like grilling the kids on the U.S. presidents?
. . . Never, ever drinks more than one glass of wine, because she
says “Loose lips sink ships”?
. . . Alphabetizes her spices, color codes her closets, and charts her
workouts?
. . . Is frequently the number one topic of gossip in the teacher’s
lunchroom, where she’s known as “Princess Pushy”?
. . . Irons bed sheets and scrubs grout with a toothbrush
every Tuesday?
. . . Finds time to put her feet up only at the gynecologist’s office?
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